To Sarah, From Mary

     Hey Sarah! It's great to hear from you! Haven't seen you guys since Christmas. This is an interesting situation you have here, to say the least. I remember you having mentioned Mark in the past, just in reference to some stories. What I remember when you talked about him is that the two of you were close, and at one time very close. I for one still talk to some ex-lovers of mine, but just as friends, specifically only as friends on social media. Considering you are married, there may be some room to be cautious. Now, it doesn't seem like this first letter he sent you is too bad, as you are hinting at a possible second letter that could come that could very well be worse. Take it from me and do not let your husband know that he sent you any letters until you see at least what a second letter could say.

    If you've responded to this first letter, and your husband finds out, it shouldn't be too bad, just tell him it's Mark, as I'm sure he knows who he is. Friends reach out sometimes, it's nothing crazy. But if a second letter admits he still has feelings for you, discard it and do not respond to it. In this case, nothing can be blamed on you. 

    If what you say about Mark is true, and he is very persistent still, then keep these ideas in mind. That's the advice I have for you. We should get coffee sometime! 

    Love,

    Mary